A love triangle that turned violent resulting inĀ a stabbing did not turn into a jail sentence for the Penticton man who admitted to wielding the knife.
On Monday, Graham Trevor Jebbett, 68, pleaded guilty to a single count of aggravated assault in connection with the incident at his apartment on March 19, 2012, and was handed a suspended sentence and three yearsā probation. If he abides by the terms of his probation, which include a 10 p.m. to 6 a.m. curfew for the first six months, Jebbett will not face further punishment.
Judge Meg Shaw said the case representedĀ āunusual and somewhat rare instancesā in which a suspended sentence is warranted due to the circumstances of the offence and Jebbettās support in the community.
Stabbing victim Tom Halmai was the ex-husband of Jebbettās ex-girlfriend, who had recently left Jebbett and reconciled with Halmai, the court heard.
On the day of the stabbing, Halmai and the woman showed up at Jebbettās apartment around 12:30 a.m., ostensibly to return some shooting targets.
āThe hour of the visit was unusual as it was after midnight and the offender was in his house robe,ā Shaw noted in her reasons for sentence.
And although he was āanxious and fearful,ā Shaw said, Jebbett invited the visitors up to his apartment, where he poured them some wine.Ā Then, as Halmai was about to step out on the balcony for a smoke, Jebbett stabbed him once in his upper abdomen with a 10-centimetre blade. Halmai then struck Jebbett several times, and laid down on a couch and was āmostly unresponsiveā by the time help arrived, Shaw said, adding Halmai spent the next two months recovering his health.
Defence counsel John Stowell said his client, who is āpretty much paralyzedā on his left side due to two prior brain injuries, had previously taken a ābeatingā from the larger Halmai, who Jebbett feared was there āto do him harm.ā Stowell said Jebbett was unable to recall exactly what led up to the stabbing, but admitted to police he was under āthe impression, at least, he was about to be attackedā by Halmai.
āI donāt think Iāve met a more remorseful person,ā Stowell told Shaw, after going over multiple letters of support from counsellors and community service providers whose help Jebbett sought out after the incident.
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